Have come to learn so much though every day will learn actually , so many people have these problem of being among trying to imitate someone ,force people to love you or like you the truth is they will u dey hear never love you if you don't love yourself and appreciate your personality,lifestyle OYO LO WA .Attitude speaks louder ,let it speak for you , i love these quote so much that says 'everybody likes you ,you have a problem'.
Have you ever ask yourself why some friendship don't last ?
the truth is those kind of involvement was just a forced friendship,fun.
i believe if you have a friend no matter what that person would truly remember no matter the distance .
is best to be your own than to humiliate yourself even in a relationship if that Guy/Babe is not meant for you ,free that person your own will come .
be patient that word my mum keeps telling me and it has really helped me.
how do you feel when you with somebody who treasure you ,make you happy ,even when you down ready to cheer you up.
sacrifice their time to reach out to through message and phone calls .
those kind of people treasure them they are hard to find .
if you are the type that is a loner no friend just a couple of church members that is wrong that is a friend you have a relationship with that person.
There used to be a time i used to ask myself do i have a Friend ?
i wrote yes inside my diary ,my church pals,families, colleagues, school friends these are people who have in one way define me .
i was really strong for the past two weeks got a lot cracking in these babe restricted myself from people ,shut down my phones .
and the following week i got lot of message ,calls and hugs asking where have been am scarce and all that .
all i had to do was smile
am glad i can put a smile on someones face based on my jovial and unique attitude
my latest friend that is a guy i wont tell you is name ok is a great guy but i came to realize we were not meant to be friends he is always busy find one excuse or the other just to avoid me on phone we are good and face contact is poor instead he sees me and form a pretense smile all i had to was delete his contact to avoid worries .
dont force people to love you just let it flow if that person really want to know you or be your friend He/She would that .
just be yourself is as simple ,love who you are dont try to be someone or act like someone else by doing things you have never done in the negative aspect .
be with someone who will change you positively and it reflect on the outward .
have fun .