I would
never forget the most horrible date I ever had last two years , he lied about
the fact he doesn’t drink and I totally believe until he was around we had to
meet somewhere and my brother friend was like where exactly am I going to and I told him a BAR.
He said ‘A
BAR’, I felt bad and was like I told him several times that am not comfortable
going to a bar ,tosin said “a real man would not take such a beautiful lady
like you to a bar ,he has to respect you and take you to a place like eatery
,cinema name it all”.
When I saw
him, he look totally lost drinking and spending money where he is not suppose
to spend it I just felt deep down that I can’t take it no longer and I
regretted ever giving him the cookie because of my stupid or should I call it
foolish love, I was damn stubborn been chastise by family and friend all I did
was turn deaf ears.
So that day
I told him and I was like I can’t go to the hotel and bar and he was like is
there something wrong and I told him.
if not is over between us because am tired of
crying and it if you really love me with your heart you would stop drinking and
change from those habit I hate remind me of my late dad.
I moved on,
he never stopped calling even up to now but the truth is you can never live a happy life with a man that
drinks.
They spent the money where they are
supposed not to spend it on, they womanize, love to party and show off
forgetting their family and loved ones, they can’t take care of the family, and
they are not discipline if you get them angry they become violent.
People do say is normal for a guy to
drink as for me is not normal but matter of choice to make things right, I
won’t even think of marrying a guy who drinks but who is drunk in the gospel of
Jesus Christ and live by the standard that is what make a happy home but the
question is that what you want ?