This is indeed a true love story it is reality not just played in the movie , is more than imagination is a great history that took these two beautiful lot of years to finally realize they are meant for each other .
made a research about their age just seven years different ,Adesua is 29 yrs by now so many ladies at that age would be like where is my man ? Banky is 36 yrs as for me i thought he was 40 yrs ,the maturity is just there in these relationship
Am really happy for them ,these story has really taught me a lot and made me regret my past relationship and really understand I dont deserve those men '.
Am not writing a biography like Nairaland ,a great lesson to learn from Adesua & Banky love story to all singles .
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Lesson to learn from Banky [ Man Perspective]
Ladies focus ,let your eyes be on these banky expression of love even if it is ine thing you can learn let it guide for me it was more than one thing .
1 He does not know is going to be involved ,focus on making money
2 fate crossed path
he said ' 2/3 times they crossed path '
3 Smitten
when a man loves you ,he is smitten about everything you are so attached to [family,friends]he is deeply attracted to you ,hard to get you out of your mind '
he said ' smitten by your grace,aura and beauty .
4 He knows what he want
there is a big difference between a wife material and a side chick .
He said
5 ask people about you
6 Research about you
7 Stalk you
He said ' i googled you ,follow you on Instagram '
8 Act silly when he is around you
9 He sends you message
try to know whats going on in your life because he care so deeply about even when you dont ask him .
10 He makes you laugh
11 He start with the word FRIEND and not DATE
12 When he says FRIEND ,it might be more than that
I love the part he said 'A safe place to start '
13 Never stop communicating ,it flows even when boring
14 He becomes your close friend,favorite person on earth .
15 Without you his incomplete
I love the part he said ' it got to the point where my day wouldn't quite feel right without speaking to you ,I needed your FRIENDSHIP,BOND we shares makes me complete .
16 Want to spent forever not just friend
17 He talks to God about you [pray]
18 He is patience
I quote 'love is patience'
19 He shows his love using Drama ,just for you to accept the beauty of you together .
He said ' Real life imitate ART '
20 Endures to the end ,whether good and bad with no excuse .
21 He prays to be the kind of Man you deserve and act like ONE
22 He feels safe with you [comfortable]
23 You mean the world to him
24 Chemistry is there .
Love that is so strong
Lesson to learn from Adesua
First i will love to start by telling you that there is nothing as sweet and good than an Independent woman who has it and dont need to chase a man let him be the one to chase it and she truly is an Independent Woman , very hardworking and talented ready to fight poverty to be the kind of woman she is today .
I was talking to a friend of mine Blessing i was like ' ladies are praying to married a rich man ,pray to be also be rich and start by working towards it '
saving for the future and looking beyond the presence .
i always do hear people say is easy for ladies to get and it ts total bullshit if you dont work hard am not talking of prostitution either Career or you focus on a business that will build you to be a well define lady .
A lady of class and not ashawo that steal people's husband if you are doing need to stop and ask yourself was your passion/ what can you do ? i was shock when my friend vannessa told me she want to cook indomie and egg with Chicken , she act like she cant do that and she has been encouraged by what she sees .
Just be yourself , be confidence about your background ,learn to smile honey is attractive dont believ you are not beautiful you are beautiful .
Are you ready '
1 Friends
Start with friendship dont jump into dating the guy , Ezekiel told me these and it took me these time to realize it .
she said' He is respectful of our friendship ,nothing attached about a year and a half '
2 Research about him
dont jump to conclusion because he is handsome and rich , not ana in Fifty shades be smart .
3 Choose a man that is God fearing that love God with all his heart by action not by mouth .
Have been a victim of falling in love with a guy who knows the scripture but does not apply it and have learnt a lot and am still learning from these great story .
4 Pray for your man
Also pray with him and ask God for his mercy and love and response towards the relationship dont leave him aside if not it will be you alone ,put him in charge .
5 Fasting
Not all lady that can fast ,you have to be ready because these is so essential in life is not just about finding the right man ,communication with GOD .
6 Accept the fact you cannot be without him ,be honest to him ,when he
opens his heart to you and let you know what he feels let him know that you appreciate him and you are glad to let him into your life be serious and dont joke about it .
A man that truly loves wont joke with that word and accept you for who you are
get down on one knee and ask you to be his wife and is your turn to say YES with full of love ,emotions and tears .
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