I am so addicted to the movie not because of the romance but the actors who played the role making it so real and fascinating.I love the interview part of Anastasia even when Kate wanted her to use her car ,she turned it down telling her she is contented with what she is and her dressing was kind of old school though she does not care .
punctuality to work and interview : Christian grey is very conscious wears his wrist watch even when exercising,he keeps to time same with Anastasia punctual for her interview she knew the time and kept the appointment time.
manner of dressing : her discussion with christian grey made me realize she has old cloth and some few new cloth even when he ask her where she would be doing her IT she said ' I dont belong here' a communication that christian Grey understand that there is a big difference the way his staff dress and the way she dress and he said ' I AM ' .
i love that part so much because i was blushing imaging myself like Anastasia the attraction was there and how he admire her simplicity.
Confidence
as for me ,confidence is not about talking to the large audience is being exactly sure of doing what keeps you going ,the desire to do something ,the interest that lighten you up that makes you feel that you should do it .
Anastasia was confident about her car , dress and look that she decided to help Kate to go for the interview and during the interview her response towards grey .
I felt seeing those ladies on expensive dress would chased her from doing the interview but she decided to do her mind was made up though nervous and her flow of communicating that made Christian to ask what she wish to ask .
self expression
she express herself with her real voice ,sounded funny Are you Gay? he laughed as for me it sound funny and she was like Kate can be and christian completed her statement intrusive .
The pencil on her lips , her sitting positive the humming ,the falling down and the statement Christian said that' people have told him several times that he does not have a heart .
Anastasia said 'perhaps your heart my a bit bigger than you want to let on ' .
Her sincerity about her true identity
Ladies are fond of lying she was honest to Grey ,'I stay with Kate ,I dont think I fit in here' I dont have that cloth for dinner if it was to be some ladies she rather be proud than then tell the truth about who she is ,honest about parent ,mother on number four and her step dad ,' What do you think I study English literature so am Romantic'
The books that Grey sent to her ,honesty is more than saying the truth ,is about integrity and gratitude toward you ,perspective and she was 90% honest in all part both Fifty shades darker talking about honesty in communication.
She is not a lousy type
not everyone knew she was dating a successful business man ,if it was to be some lady they will be spreading News about their love life ,fancy things and what is trending in their relationship .
she keeps it private 'Maturity is the word ' she decided to keep her relationship private i am still trying to learn that is a key to every successful relationship whether good or bad it is your affair and they are not going to face those pain or suffering .
her mom love Grey and wanted her daughter to stay with him ,the paper she didn't even tell her best friend not her mom ,if it was you ? the whole world will know keep it private .
her simplicity , she is totally cool ,friendly ,honest ,indoor type she loves who she is and cant change and not let anyone to define her ,to the extent her second best friend took a picture of her without keeping her posted on what he did and made a surprise package for her during the exhibition ,she was shock .
The truth is just be yourself ,be happy ,have fun ,be positive ,stay with friends that will elevate you ,dont be like some one else the people she surrounds with love her so dearly and embrace her with love her attitude is so excellent Grey Mom and family were shock to find out grey was dating a lady because they all felt he was MEN when she saw Anastasia she felt that her son is changing and she fell in love with her and accepted her as Daughter in law .
Changing a man is making him do what he has never done ,breaking is rule to do everything to make you happy .
I love how she express herself that she needed some time and space after knowing the the kind of person Grey is she decided to be free a foolish lady that loves money and sex too much would have stayed .
The truth is that person will never be happy ,Ana chose to be happy with who she is going into a relationship with not vanilla relationship ,cage whatever you call it a relationship that is free from bondage she had to return all the precious gift Grey gave ,Can you do that ? as for me Yes I can i was engaged and when he did not work out i only took my property left his ring and property and the cloth he sold for me i decided to keep him in a place i wont touch it deciding to give it out to the orphans .
If a man really loves you he will come back for you ,Grey did and was ready to change He said ' No rules ' and she smile they were happy even when there were ups and down .
i hope you enjoyed yourself I did ,what are your comment what do you feel share your experience and what you learnt from Ana for me she is INCREDIBLE . I love you Ana