The same way you feel your man should know these about , accept you for who you are is how a man feel and the inspiration to write an article about love, relationship and marriage came from the vlog of chat with shirley and I was excited to watch it because as a single lady I want to know what he need from me , hate or love about him.I really wanted to keep it inside my heart but I needed to say these that I realized the importance of these when my ex fiancée said
"the biggest mistake he ever made was to proposed to me that I was his first woman he would ever do that to ,he said he would put a ring on my finger and I though he was joking until I clock 18years and November 17 he was looking at the window and I was wondering what he was looking at and he told me to stay and not go anywhere there is a special gift he has for ,though he always surprise until he said he was waiting for his close friend kayode that there is something special happening until it was very late around 6 pm he knelt down on one kneel and ask me to marry him that he would have taken to a very expensive place but he is out of cash but I said yes not because of the accommodation but because I deeply for the first time in my entire love these man and gave him all what I have never given any other man and recalling those statement he said that he should never had proposed to me that it was all lust that was the most terrible heartbreaking experience I lost two great boyfriend because of him and it took me almost four month to get rid of it .
I want all my beautiful ladies out there to know that there are lot of good men if only you open your eyes and move on and stop blaming yourself that is your fault .
what men wish you should know about are you ready
1 Ego
"The way a woman talks to her man harshly can damage the ego of a man "
2 Respect your man
" even though he does earn as much as you earn , younger to you , father in his house or your house ,give him that respect "
3 Attention
" he really want to be known , if he is coming back from work ,give him all the attention he needs and stop looking at him"
4 Submissiveness
" make him feel like he ran it "
these give him that chance to make him give you more
desire to control you
allowing him to fail and not nagging all the times even when you find it hard not to nag
"when you chose a man is like you want him to chose you "
the word submission means evaluating your relationship , gift and as a leader .
5 Give him the opportunity to be your hero
' give him some job to do for you and stop saying you can do it all by yourselves '
6 Give him enough sex
" don't be furious when he want sex be happy because he loves you and sees you as the most beautiful even when he sees so many outside , he feels you guys connection and appreciate you deeply "
7 Believe in him
" yes you can do it honey , I believe in you "
8 Risk taking
" he is doing these for the future ,stop nagging or being negative give him the chance to take risk if not it become a scar in his life don't hold it back on him , free him"
9 Trust him
' even when people say shit about him , you know your husband more than anyone else so don't be deceive by lies and learn to trust him '
10 Give him a quiet time to think
" IF HE IS TIRED ,LET HIM REST , IF HE WANT TO SPORT LET HIM"
11 Learn to know what he likes if it is sport , sex , games e.t.c
12 Don't use the phrase we need to talk ,it scares the hell out of him
13 Know what he hate
if you are too forward and need to slow down a bit
doing too much /showing too much
'" he is built chase and pursue you "
14 know that he loves you
love that you have a strong relationship with GOD
confident and passionate in what you do outstanding
you have a career and your heart beat for home [old fashion]
taking care of yourselves spiritually and physically
"what she has been created to do "
15 Playful
laugh about stuff he love , what he love to talk about
16 Paying attention to what concern him
The same way you want him to pay attention to you is vice versa ,give him all of you
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