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The greatest mistake in every relationship is to jump from dating and become lovers that end in regret.

You met these handsome dude or pretty chick and you want to build a long term relationship but you not sure whether he / she will like it.

The truth is not their decision to make for you, is left for you to make your choice.

 Do you want to jump into it or just take it slow one step at a time?

Do you want my advice?

The best relationship always start with friendship you can ask anyone and they will tell you the same thing is not all about chemistry  or sparks is more than that .

Have you ever gone for a trip with some couples of friends for like a week or less than three day?  And when the trip ended how did you feel? Do you wish it could continue and you would not want to go home?

I went to a church camp with a group of friends and some of my dates were presence and we are just friends and it was exciting I didn’t want the programmed to just end I was asking for more but that night it was a memorable experience that I would not forget, it always put a smile on my face whenever I think of the experience .

If I was to change the scenario I went to a church camp with group of my  friends and couple of dates , we make out like six rounds, I got exhausted and wanted to go home , felt naughty and dirty and it was the worst experience a church can you imagine what sort of person does that and I wish it clear off my mind the next day I don’t want to think about it makes me feel like a slut I don’t know who I am again just got myself wounded .

 A great difference between these two stories, the first story was exciting, nothing involved and a memorable experience that is unforgettable with the word I love “ask for more “.

The other story they make out like six rounds at a church camp it was all centered on lust and pleasure , it was dirty and naughty an experience that need to be cleared out .

Before you go into any relationship you need to define what you want, communicating is key tell him/her let’s just stay friends is best to avoid sex I don’t want to be wounded again , I need us to get to know our selves better if you don’t want that then is best we go our separate way .

Do you know my best color?

I always like mentioning Matthew in all of my stories he was my worst boyfriend he never knew what I like or dislikes, color, food, skills name it all.

No offence but his interest was the sex the first day we met at the institute doing a religion course though I was infatuated with him , he never knew and he likes my shape let me put it that way and wanted me to get laid that day he ask me out that he want to take care of me  , my mistake was the fact that I never told him lets’ be friend , that would have been better .

There are great benefit when you start as friend because if the relationship get too deep , you both understand each other and there will not be any disagreement , you become partners , you know every single thing about him what he /she likes , home town ,history about past lives and others .

When you eventually get married to that person it would be so wonderful and it will be forever so hold on , if you are still digging it then you have to stop because is going to  hit you one day and you going to regret why you ever did that .

A man life is always more interesting it can keep on flirting and no one talks and wounded but not as painful as a lady is more worse for a lady when she experience heartbreak .

Some people might say

What about you were friends for two years and still found out you not good for each other.

The truth is no one is perfect and you need to understand we are striving to become perfect and working on our flaws is a challenging task but if your feel it deep down in your heart that it can’t work I advise to make your stand .

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